Curve Balls & Spitters: Life throws all that and more at us. Yet, we can never anticipate this before it happens and are left standing as if in cement. We rise and prepare for the day, shower, maybe shave and do what we usually do. We may have the entire day outlined in our minds. We may have things to do, people to see, and places to go. At least, that is what we are thinking. Still, life plays tricks on us, and the best-laid plans will often go completely astray.
This is a frequent happening in old age. Don’t bet on feeling great and prepared for what you were ready for and doing yesterday. This is a whole new day, and the effects of aging are insidious. It can creep up or attack full bore, and in an instant, everything is changed. It is why we are constantly reminded to live each day to its fullest. We must, or we lose what we possess, which is “this time, this moment,” and those experiences that take place.
I have written that for the old and aging, our memories, particularly the good ones, are where we need to live. Being in the present is everything for the young and those who see and do and have much life and living ahead of them. On the other hand, being in the “present” does little for the aged.
The truth is often hard to swallow, but as we grow old, injuries gained in more youthful days return along with other numerous ills that are part of the aging package. It is why I suggest seeking out those old and fond memories. As bitter and callous as life can be for some, there can still be a few memories worth bringing back to life. Hopefully, the good ones are there, and digging for them is the right thing. Ideally, where you are at this moment is pleasant and enjoyable. If so, file these memories as worthy of hanging on to and sharing your good feelings with friends.
Sy
